If you make the decision to become parents or if you don’t want something like that. Apart from the thorny issue that will occur one there is a disagreement, the couple must be absolutely certain that it is ready for the big step.
Here are some questions we need all couples to answer before having a child!
We both want to become parents?
It’s not a desire for which you can convince the other or to give in and simply to make the sake. You need to be sure that you want to do both this step.
Cost-how are we doing?
Each to their own otherwise laid down in the financial situation and judge accordingly. Take a look with in your bank accounts and click add. The upbringing of a child certainly needs more money than you think, on the other, of course, will not expect to get rich to make a child. In any case, agree that in order to be able to offer what you want for your child.
We thought about what we will do with the baby?
Babies are adorable, but they require program. Talk about what you will do for the care of the baby, what hobby do you intend to sacrifice, how will you split the housework. According to research couples who are preparing for the new routine with the baby, and collaborate in advance, adapt more quickly to their new life.
How to end the fighting?
Solve your differences with arguments or slamming doors with a lot of voices and noise? You intend to download tunes in order to welcome into your home a child? To verify that the design works put in place from now!
We know what kind of parents we want to be?
You liked that your parents were very strict and did you learn to be disciplined from a young age? Or maybe he was too relaxed and talk as friends to each other? You think maybe you have to adopt other roles, that of the kind of strict mom and more loose dad? Discuss in advance about the role you would like everyone to take as well as for your templates in order to come to some kind of agreement.
We laugh enough?
Good, because sometimes when you just have a diaper change and it’s three o’clock in the morning, the baby is crying nonstop and you can’t with anything to the guys, the laughter will help you to cope! Do not forget that the difficult situations we face always with a sense of humor!
Are you okay with the changes in our sexual life?
Sex after the birth of a baby, and during pregnancy, is reduced. Live the now and make sure you are both ready to accept the changes in your sex life. After all the hugs and cuddles with your baby are worth this small sacrifice.
The questions every couple should answer before having a child
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