Recent years have seen more and more there is a big age difference in couples, and usually the man is older than the woman.
What are the reasons which create this form of relationship? What drives a man to choose for a partner a younger woman and what drives the woman to choose older man? Just occurs fall in love with two people with a large age difference or if there is any interest?
With regard to the middle-aged man entering a sexual relationship with a younger woman, she feels that it is extended life and feel younger. At the same time, reinforced his ego, it boosts the self-confidence because of the admiration he enjoys from his wife and confirms that even you can captivate a woman. So this way it feels that beats the time that passes. Is the so-called crisis called that passes the man in this period of his life.
Respectively, the woman feels that draws prestige, recognition by the larger partner, gaining the experience and knowledge he has acquired with the years and in addition feels important because of the social or economic of the surface. This choice on the part of the woman may be associated with the maiden standard, or even to operate the companion as a substitute of her father. Still, the low self-esteem and insecurity can be creates the need for relationship with older man.
Through these we see the difference of thinking between the two sexes, the man usually chooses on the basis of external characteristics, while the woman seeks to feel emotional and financial security.
One likely result of these relations is arguing either because there are different interests, as in the way of fun, different way of life in general, or different thoughts, desires, due to different generation or there is a strong jealousy from the side of the husband or the family environment of the woman does not approve of the relationship. Another possibility is the relationship based on economic exploitation, so when the money runs out, the man disappears and the woman. And many times the men have left their marriage after 20 or 30 years for a younger woman. In these cases we could think of that might play a role in the economic and social conditions of the times in which we live, and the insecurity that exists. Other times the relationship ends soon with the excuse of “I don’t want to deprive you of your future”, as well-in fact the man doesn’t want a serious commitment but just switch sexual partners.
As we know, however, to every rule there are exceptions. So in this case there are couples who have big age difference, be happy, and the relationship stand the test of time. There is no need to blame anyone for the choice of, especially when she fills his heart with satisfaction. And let’s not forget that every relationship is unique and what it needs is love and communication.
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