Halcis: “They use the child for revenge,” says the 12-year-old’s mother who denounced her for sexual acts with her partner in front of her

‘ Apparently they use the child for reasons of retaliation” claims through her lawyer the 12-year-old’s mother from her, whom her daughter denounced for sexual acts along with her partner in front of her repeatedly. It all began when the 12-year-old from Chalkida initially confided to her grandmother that her mother and her partner were systematically proceeding to sexual acts in front of her. This resulted in grandmother and granddaughter going to the police station and proceeding with a complaint against them. The testimony of the minor to the police was given in the presence of a child psychologist. At the expense of her mother and her partner she was formed by HR police officers. Chalkidas brief for insulting sexual dignity. The mother’s side targets the father as regards the conversion of the 12-year-old’s behavior, as she claims, until the day of the complaint the minor was very tender to her mother. The 12-year-old’s mother and her ex-husband were facing domestic violence problems Mother’s lawyer, Mary Carlis, speaking at newsit.gr argues that her commandant was the victim of violent reactions by her ex-husband with whom three children brought to life. “This couple faced domestic violence problems. Mother has been beaten by her ex-husband. The physical damage from the external clinics of Halkida hospital has been identified,” the lawyer says in newsit.gr and adds: “he had filed a same-day lawsuit, the autonomic process had been initiated. However, my client wanted to go to a regular trial. He says, “this happened in August. They divorced and the mother leaves the family roof in November. In January they draw up a private agreement, a consensual arrangement of matters, a solution to marriage, custody, nutrition and communication. They have three underage children. The first daughter is 16 years old, boy 14 and third and 12 years old. The custody of the first two children was entrusted exclusively to the father. And the custody of the 12-year-old was exercised by the mother exclusively.” The mother’s side, through Mrs. Carlis, claims that “the climate that prevailed – even after the marriage was resolved and the regulation of matters – the father had harassment behavior. So he would call Mother and insult her, threaten her. This resulted in the minor having a denial, a dystrophy in communication with the father.” In fact, as she tells us “there are relative messages that we have in our possession in which the minor tells her dad “you make Mom cry, I don’t want to talk to you.” The relationship between mother, partner and minor was excellent, to the point where in paintings of the minor who paints the mother as her family, the partner whom she calls ‘my dad’, the partner’s daughter from his previous marriage and calls her ‘sister’ and herself. There is full harmony in the relationship of these people.” The 34-year-old lawyer says that “the mother is devastated, how we got here has shocked her and is trying to give a reasonable explanation.” The chronicle from the mother’s side In addition, he describes speaking in newsit.gr the chronicle from the day of changing the behavior of the 12-year-old girl until today. “On March 24, the minor informed her mother that she wants to go to Africa where her dad lives to play with her cousin on the father’s side. It did. They all eat together, the companion with the mother and the little one, and then the mother takes her to Afrikaans. Soon after the 12 – year – old called her mother to ask her permission because she wanted to sleep at night with her cousin. Her 34-year-old allowed her to spend the night but made it clear that she would come in the next morning from school to pick her up.” However, as Mrs. Carlis tells us, “Suddenly the next day, the father of the 12-year-old invited Grandma, on the mother’s side, and told her that the young woman was sick, because her belly was hurting and she was taken from school. Then Mother started calling to find out where and how her daughter was. They didn’t pick up her phones at first. At some point she was taken by the minor herself and told her that she wanted to stay with her father for some time and that she would take what she needed. Previous days and the grandmother of the little one on the father’s side had given 100 euros to the minor.” He adds that “the paradox is that on March 26, the day the complaint was made, the mother went to her ex-husband’s house and gave the child her school bag. There they hugged, kissed. He told her to be careful and that whenever he wants to call her to come home. She also told her that she would call her and that she would go to see her every day and the minor would say ‘How much I love you, Mom’. And suddenly the next day this is all about some complaint that exists against the 34-year-old mother.” When did they see a change of attitude in the 12-year-old? The mother’s side claims that “the conversion to the behaviour of the underage certainly and demonstrates something” with the 34-year-old mother’s lawyer reporting to newssit.gr that “while the custody of the minor is practiced by the mother, the father, under the threat of the media, tells her ‘you will see what you have to get from televisions, you will see what I will do to you, you will work to pay me, you and your boyfriend’ and they have ruled out any kind of communication with the minor.” The mother’s lawyer says in newssit.gr “Of course when we have a 12-year-old and there is 100€, there are also ‘‘I will buy you everything’, that is, an uncontrolled situation on the other hand that satisfies every desire and need of the minor, they obviously use the child for retaliation for the mother, with various lures.” He adds that “a child does not understand the gravity of his actions, is motivated and used in this way. The child is supposed to have been abused by scenes he has watched between mother and partner. When we have an abused child who’s supposed to confide in all that he’s been experiencing to his grandmother and father, he hugs and kisses on the day of the complaint and doesn’t give any sample that something’s going on? Doesn’t the father make a move by removing custody by judicial actions, his first concern is the channels? “ And he adds that “at the same time, if one considers it, he sees that the father has just come to know that his ex-wife’s relationship with her partner is formalized, he is methoding this particular incident. Many times parents unfortunately tool children and use them to achieve their own goals.” “We will address the Juvenile Prosecutor’s Office” According to Mrs. Carlis, even the crime of kidnapping is evidenced for the father of the 12-year-old. “There has been no prosecution yet, we have not testified. We’re at the preliminary examination stage. We’re going to report to the D.A. today. While she has sole custody of the minor, at the moment she doesn’t even know where her child is, what his emotional state is like, or his physical health. Even the crime of grabbing is documented” ends the mother’s lawyer, who is accused along with her partner of proceeding to sexual acts in front of the 34-year-old’s 12-year-old daughter.