Talk regularly, but are you sure that he only speaks with you?
They see us…
When you’re together in a public space, you can for sure see he’s flirting with you, but not in the way that I was flirting with someone with whom you’re having an affair. The banter and the jokes give and take, but I’m certainly not going to embrace you. Can do it deliberately, believing that he gives you attention, but leaving his options open.
(Not at all) personal messages
Yes, you are talking regularly, but every time he sends you the sense that you could be sending the same message to five other people. How are those the guys that send a mass message to all their contacts to wish a good Easter? If you look at, let’s say, that I never mentioned your name, or that what she says is not trying to be a little more personal, probably has two or three loopholes in the chat open at the same time.
And you get a like, everybody gets a like!
This is not something that should normally be scared of, because we are talking about social media. And the purpose of being on social media is to do like what brings people to like the page in turn. It’s a problematic cycle confirmation. But if you see him getting a streak the profile of other on Instagram and pushing hearts in every selfie, something’s not right.
I’ve got the power
When someone plays double (triple, quadruple) dashboard, then you need to have control of the situation every hour and moment. This means that he will organise all your plans and everything will be made in the schedule. To be honest, even if you don’t talk with others, if you speak only when he’s in the mood to talk to him, the guy is probably not the best emotional investment for you.
My phone and my eyes
If you see him looking at his phone suspiciously, turning away from you while writing, or just whenever it rings to get up and out of the room, it’s time to ask yourself what’s going on. And, no, this does not mean that you have the right to rummage through the cell phone. If he is sneaky and not honest, you don’t need to stoop to his level.
Do not talk only with you?
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