it’s not a mistake eventually
1. “Anyway, yes.”
The passive agrresive comment many have loved (when they did them, not when listened to) but the fighting. Open your mouth and talk like a man and not like a spoiled 10-year-old who refuses to say what he has, because otherwise the only thing you accomplish is to don’t solve the issue that you have with your friend and stay mad at each other for a very long time.
2. “I blame you for this”
It’s never the fault of only one. EVER. And even to blame the other for something to accuse him so openly rather than to discuss the matter with him and to find a solution will not make you feel better nor will it solve the problem.
3. “Do what you want”
If you don’t want to do what he wants why would you say that? The only thing you accomplish is to piss off even more the other and make something out of reaction – and we all know how this goes (bad).
4. I don’t want to talk about this right now
It is reasonable to want to take a moment of your time and relax, when there’s something bothering you about your friend, but when you avoid to talk about a subject when you need you don’t get something just prolong the tension.
5. Never/ Always
From the moment you blame another for that never or always do x, y thing the damage has already been done. When you are so absolute in their statements, your anything doesn’t go well in the conversation that follows.
6. You’re very… (put whatever cosmetic last name you want!)
When fighting and cursing at each other (even when you’re right) means that you want to hurt him – a lot, so in this case put yourself in his position and think how would you like me to treat you like that./
6 phrases that destroy your relationship (and you say)
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