At a time when the parents themselves have many of their own concepts and problems with the main one being the occasion of the difficult economic situation that we are experiencing as a country, their role in dealing with the kids takes on a secondary importance. And yet from that one event can start a lot of problems for the child which are evident to the parents, sometimes with inappropriate behavior of children. This inappropriate behavior is observed both in the context of the family and the larger social group that they belong to the same school with the appearance of bullying.
Undoubtedly bullying is more present than ever in our days and in fact can be observed in the first classes of the school where the children are still young. It is a social thorn in the structure of society and the restraint is considered necessary if you don’t want to get to extreme forms of violence with the raising of children. As in all of the social problems we are looking at the root of the problem which is the cause of evil. So where does this aggression of children, which is manifested both in the family and at school? As long as first answer the question what is the smallest unit of society, the cell? Logically begins from there and continues to expand. The cell of society the family is the same. This is the first group that belongs to the individual and the group exercises its first influence on the child which is considered significant and the following for the whole of his life. So if in the family there is indifference towards the child, violence towards the child or even violence between two parents or excessive attention of parents to the child becoming spoilt and demanding, then it is almost certain that all these will form a nipper, for example, playing a bully in high school trying to adopt the violent roles that he sees at home.
Today will somebody tell me, however, that the family is not always one in which the kids spend a lot of hours, but the kids spend many hours in nurseries or with people they think if the parents work. In this case, adopt the behavior of these people, since children at this age imitate extensively.
The children are not electronic machines to hit a button and a to stop for.x. to squeak. Want delicate handling, they want time and attention, they want a team spirit and not to leave them to play alone, to talk with them, eat with them, we are, first of all, we, ourselves, are calm for the simple reason that for the kids, parents are the first mirrors. And of course most importantly they want love and not just expensive toys and gifts.
In the difficult times we live in, if there is a live hope this is the same guys, don’t poison well, and those buying their upbringing with a lot of gifts , games, activities, because, as far removed from the warmth of a warm family atmosphere, the angrier they’ll get and will adopt aggressive roles. Finally, there are some things in life don’t matter if you don’t do it with your heart . None of us remembers how much it cost the present that they took us when we were kids, but remember that it took us something. None of us remember how expensive our clothes took our mother, but we remember what a joy it is for us the fit when wearing it and how proud after.
Give the children a soul, heart, smile, and quality time ( meaning, to deal even half an hour only to those without to do alongside other things) and show them the calm yourself and not your stresses and your voices, and you can be assured that the reflection of all these positive elements will be painted in a smiling child’s face and a calm soul of a child.
Unruly children and how to calm down…
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