Let’s talk about the best friends, those unsung heroes behind every beautiful and ugly moment. Or in praise for your actions, or more often,…
help to get over a difficult time. It’s always there, sometimes to make fun with the unique way that only they can, your choices, and sometimes to fight for them.
I won’t stand in the beautiful days to spend with her doing crazy things on the street, shopping, drinking cocktails on the beach, walking in the park with your dogs, tasting one than the other, the new flavors from the new shop with Italian ice cream, watching movies in the morning on the couch. I won’t mention in that comment, all over the world, that you laugh at the ridiculous guy who fell in his way! I’ll talk about the hard work that he does, standing next to you, when things don’t go very well…
It’s terribly difficult role. You know how bad it feels, when you have to speak sharply to bring you back from a moment of absurdity, while she sees you lying weak, wounded on the floor of the house? Tearing, first own heart, that I don’t “have” to do what he feels. To embrace you, and cry with you on the floor until you pass the crisis!
Have you thought about, how many nights have dawn, speaking with you on the phone, analyzing again and again the same theme, or making scenarios for the outcome of a story? Have you ever asked her, if there is a own issue, which is equally the concern, and would need to discuss that with you? Do you know how many times he’s sleepy when it’s past three in the night and have to wake up early in the morning for work?
Our best friends, brother and sister, who enter into our lives and our love to bind us blood ties. Are the angels and our demons. It’s the people who don’t hesitate to confess, even the most deep secrets, words, even in front of the mirror to us, we wouldn’t dare to spit out.
Do you know how many times wanted to say a big SHUT up, when you say the same things over and over again, and you don’t stop for hours? Instead she sits patiently, and listens to you, without cease, until Ï†Î¹Î»Î¿Ï„Î¹Î¼Î·Î¸ÎµÎ¯Ï‚ to ask her how she is!
Do you know how many times one has got priority , over the relationship of the above obligations and over even by herself, just because she feels that you need a shoulder to cry on? Refusing outings and fun, and by choice lives next door and wears all your misery. And do you know how many times you made her cry in secret, when he gets home, with the emotional load of the messages to you? I said never because he loves you and doesn’t want to feel bad!
If so, and you have a best friend, or better yet thinks you’re someone else’s best friend, means that you are blessed! It means you’re unique! We owe a thank you to these friends-sisters, which are daily with us, selflessly. Without any requirement of carrying the huge cost of having such a relationship…
Thank you friend and my sister