Natasha Bofiliu for abuse at her workplace: ‘Except verbally there was physical violence’

She described her being experienced by a certain person years ago. She talked about the scenes that unfolded and what she did. Then decide not to file a complaint. Today he would react completely differently. He never forgot until today what he lived that night. “I reacted at the time, but reporting it didn’t even occur to me,” recalls the popular singer. “Sure, only when someone is in a position of authority behaves like this. I experienced abusive behavior, even violence, in a shop where I worked and I didn’t think at the time to denounce it” describes about the abuse by Natasha Bofiliu in an interview she gave Marie Claire ADVERSE “I reacted at the time, but reporting it didn’t even occur to me, which I would do today without a second thought. I even remember that, apart from verbal violence, there was also physical violence. This man pushed me so hard I hit my back on a boudoir, and the mirror fell down. It was an act that happened in front of viewers and even without even understanding why. That was in my dressing room, and that’s why my people and the orchestra only found out after it was over. It has been many years since,” Natasha Bofiliu said. As he then said: “It was a very specific and reported incident, not some covert behavior. I could just say, “I was being raped. But I didn’t think about it, not me, not my sister, who was with me that day. Not even the people who were around. Think about how different we thought then. Today, I would react. I consider it one of the profits of the time.” “I also remember another case: We were at a large table with music people, along with my husband Christos, then he was still my companion. A man, known on site, asked me to stand up and make a turn around myself. And I got up and I did. It was an awkward and strange moment for everyone. We left soon, and when we discussed it with Christos, I began to realize how he disarmed me at the time. Surely, there are women reading right now who have experienced much more serious situations: rape, beating, chronic sexual abuse, even by people in their family. But all this starts somewhere. Usually from small incidents that we tolerate or do not set boundaries. Tolerance in such phenomena trains society to say: “These things happen. ‘ There is nothing more vulgar than this phrase.”