You, my dear, you eat every day sweets?
When you’re tired and haven’t slept have you…
in the mood to dance and to play nonstop?
Don’t take a bath when you get dirty with?
You don’t wear a seat belt when you get in the car?
So why say excessive when you don’t want to give it to my kid again, chocolate, mock me when I want to wash his hands before sitting down to eat, you’re telling me that making excuses for, when not in the mood to play with you, because he hasn’t slept and want to go for a ride in the car without a car seat because, come on up here next we’ll go to, how are you doing?
I know that we should not judge anyone, especially if you don’t have kids. Besides, may has a view of all even with raising children. And why not, after all, when you’re outside a situation can see things more correctly. With calmness and sobriety all are solved more easily.
But ,when you judge me and mock me for the obvious, not only do you hear it again, but I will try to avoid you as much as I can just to have my peace of mind, which is so precious now.
I’m tired of giving every day “battles” with adults, educated and intelligent people in the field of maintenance, road safety (sick and tired of Javert) and education (Î Ï†Ï†Ï†Ï† graphic) of my child because, “come on, how are you doing so if you eat ice cream” (the two-year-old who ate previous a piece of cake, because come on, the pre-previous one, half a pack of cookies because come on.k.).
We young we ate what happened to us? Come on, you put a program in the small child (who has satisfied all his physical needs and you don’t have to cry so be cheerful, calm, laughs and has all the time for play and exploration). We what happened to us that we didn’t have a program?
First to tell you that it’s been 40 years since then, so as to say something has changed.
To tell you what happened because it’s not going to do anymore they suck.
You have a blood sugar of 34 (I don’t know why, doctor, I’m not, but I do know that diet plays an important role in our health), in a car accident from which you came out unscathed, you survived because you were wearing a belt. Think about to have a baby with you and someone’s holding the arms in the back seat without a belt, as you insist to do it… (I can’t even think about it).
I also want to remind you of our friend that her mother used to throw and a spanking, put a voice, because come on what happened to him (by the way, it was not just one spanking, not a voice).
Had the following question: if and made very good studies, has never claimed a good job except for odd jobs, and now at 45, he doesn’t know what will be in the morning. I made it a career, even though he could with the talents and knowledge of, nowhere and nothing. Not rated never of herself, has no confidence, he went to psychologists and eventually ended up kissing (literally) of herself trying to convince that she loves him. In vain….
So you, you, you don’t have kids, I don’t care, all the same to me, so stop judging like an egomaniac and try if you want to listen to me and understand me because, you know, I wasn’t born a mother, I don’t know everything, I became a mother and I’m trying every day to learn how to raise my kids.
Everything is alien, unfamiliar, a lot of times they scare me. I’m trying every day to create a proper, balanced, healthy, sensitive, well-educated, happy people.