Despina Vandi: “When I fell in love with Vasilis Bisbiki I decided to change my life”

“I fell in love with him and he was lightning in the air,” he revealed, among other things, in an interview with all the matter. A guest of Thanasis Anagnostopoulos and Nancy Zabetoglou was the well-known singer in today’s (01.01.20205) New Year’s show of Studios 4. Despina Vandi spoke about everyone and about everything, about the year’s account, her career, and her partner, Vasilis Bisbiki. ADVERSE “I cook, if you don’t do cookies and cookies if you smell the house, you can’t! Smells and lights are Christmas, I do it too, my kids do it now. I see it as an opportunity to share moments of love and carelessness. A New Year’s I haven’t sung live, and I didn’t like it at all. I didn’t enjoy the after. I packed, cooked for everyone, and then I wanted to get on the dance floor. I said “Ah, there I want to go now”,” the famous singer initially said about Christmas. And fill in, with intense emotion: “ Making this recap, I see the innocence I had at the time. That’s more touching. Every moment in the course of my career had a lot of joy. Long journeys. I’m not a one-dimensional person after all, I like to deal with a lot and be tested with a lot of things. If you told me to cut the song, it wouldn’t. I’ve seen myself since I became a mom. My job became my third child, I let him grow up a little alone. I don’t fight to keep any innocence. You’re losing her. Life comes and tells you you don’t live in a fairy tale anymore. Mostly when things happen to you that you never believed will never happen to you. We feel that everything happens to others until you realize that you’re the star of your life movie, which you didn’t even choose to see. CORVERSE I, with a lot of work, decided to choose joy instead of fair. Because in life I think that’s the separation. I choose to make everything that goes through my hand. I don’t choose sorrow, I don’t let anything overtake me and throw me on the floor. It costs, but I’m a woman in 50 and I choose joy,” said the singer. “No one knows anything. You know what’s going on and it’s a very first level. I don’t care what anyone thinks of me. It concerns me what my kids, Claus, people who know me and know me. This comes with absolute consciousness, in the idea of being liked you will be unhappy. I failed my parents completely when I became a singer, but that’s what I decided in a horror of a soul,” she stressed regarding what is said about her lifestyle. For her collaboration with Notis Sfakianakis which she interrupted, Despina Vandi said: “A great artist made me leave. What convinced me was an important verb. “Required”. When they left the partnership, I got too emotional. You can’t have the whole pie and the dog full. While for the incident in Turkey, he said: “Even what happened in Cesme, I did not leave, was a decision that did not contain any qualm. I didn’t want a political meaning at that concert. I said I didn’t want it. The person who for neighbor friends is a great person, for us, who are of Pontian descent, marks the start of a massacre. My grandparents were from Kerasuda, I’ve heard stories of my ancestors. They didn’t get my permission, and I couldn’t help leaving then.” “I’ve made many mistakes, I’ve never ‘bought it’. I’ve always had enormous insecurity. When I worked together, I thought people were coming for the whole thing, not for me. My legs were cut to Lycabettus, I couldn’t go from the dressing room to the stage. I was saying “are they all here for me?” This was because of low self-esteem, which I realized after many years of therapy. Everything has its basis in childhood. I always told my kids how lucky I am to have the best kids. There is no nicer thing to say to children “I love you I am here”. That’s how a child’s self-esteem is built. I don’t remember the first time I heard my first “good job”. I told myself “I have it” in my now. I was late, but I made it. I can say that I love and appreciate me anymore. Since I was 50, I decided to fill my “empty” soul. It wasn’t really empty, I just decided to fill her pieces. My kids filled it up, it was the most beautiful thing I ever did. I was a mom on top of them and now that I see it, I see two wonderful creatures with values and joy. From then on, I wanted to do things for myself now. When I fell in love with Vassilis and said “I can’t” but then I decided to change my life. At that point, he made me smile and lit it in and out. I decided to close a life cycle and open a new one, without knowing where it would lead me.” I fell in love with him. It was lightning in the air. I saw him at the theater, then I invited him to come to a center where I sang. When I saw him I said “Jesus”. I didn’t know he was married, I didn’t know anything. We’re so happy to be together. At 50 you know what you don’t want and you can set your limits, which you don’t put at 25 and 30.” Despina Vandi said: “From the concerts in Crete with Antonis Remo we gave part of the proceeds to the structures hosted by women and children. Physical abuse is too cruel, but maybe psychological is worse. The scars of the soul are not covered as easily. As with a make up you cover marks, so you do with a smile. I want to give courage and strength to all.” Finally, regarding her relationship with children she stressed: “I have a very honest relationship with the children, very real. Everything has a way. Kids don’t belong to us, we raise them, and I always said I want them to be two happy adults. Tomorrow – the day after tomorrow they’ll leave, I won’t then make my life statement. When something doesn’t make you happy, it affects the kids, and then you change it. When you impose a situation in which you endure, but it makes you miserable, it makes the kids miserable. The way I live now has freedom, transparency, honesty and much love.”